Dear MX24, I have been following your page for some time now and didn’t think I would ever share my story but today I really need to.
Please I need help with my husband. We have been married for 2 years and he is the most loving man on earth. He takes care of all my needs and rushes to my side whenever I say I feel ill. When I complain I have a headache, he is the type that will actually buy me chocolates and rush home to make me food. He makes sure I lack nothing and provides for my every need. But there is something he has been doing that I just can’t keep living with.
My husband won’t let me rest and he’s always on my case when it comes to sex. I understand that sex is very important in marriage but that does not mean I should become a slave to it?
At first, I thought he just had a greater sex drive than me but for someone who can go three rounds in just one night, I’m beginning to feel used. This man is on me for up to 2 hours at a time, twisting and turning me around till I’m out of breath and it’s really starting to tire me out.
The worst part about it all is that he never asks for my permission before he goes in, he always finds a way to trick me into having sex with him. The other night, he asked me to kindly pass him his towel while he was in the shower and he pulled me inside and destroyed me. I won’t lie, I kind of enjoyed the surprise sex but I just don’t want to feel used and abused.
I tried to bring it up but his point was that sex and marriage go well together so all my body is for him and his is also mine and he doesn’t see the need to ask me first. Ever since, I really haven’t been enjoying sex with him even though my body says different. He’s so good that my body shakes every time he’s done.
I don’t want to ruin my marriage by forcing to ask for my permission first but at the same time I feel like I deserve that kind of respect. Am I asking for too much?
I really need to get over it but I’m struggling and it’s affecting our relationship. Please help me to fix my broken pen. I need your advice.
Thank you.
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