Dear MX24,
I would like to ask your advice on my issue.
I met this girl during a retreat last year and quickly bonded with her. We are from the same region and we both speak the same dialect so it was easy to converse. At the time I met her, she didn’t seem really interested in me so I didn’t push for a lot but we agreed to exchange numbers at least.
After about a month, we had developed a closer relationship and she moved to Accra to find work. It wasn’t long before we met up and spent time together. We got emotionally attached and had sex but agreed after that we both wanted a no-strings-attached relationship. Being both single, that’s all we have been doing since last year; she comes over to mine, we “enjoy” ourselves and then she goes home.
But things are changing recently. We seem to know each other better and really connecting on another level. I can feel it when she’s not feeling well and she instantly knows when there is something wrong with me. She has started buying things to cook for me when she comes over and contributes to my bills at the end of every month. I thought the time was right so I asked her to be in relationship with me but she rejected me!
I know that she’s single but I’m dying over the fact that she doesn’t want to make things official. Is sex and companionship all I am good for? I think I will go mad if I can’t make her my girl but I’m struggling to find a way to make her mine once and for all. Can you and your readers help me with ways that I can grab her attention forever? Please help me, I’m going mad. Fix my broken pen.
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